Postponed wedding, should we elope?

So our wedding was scheduled for March 28th if this year, but due to the coronavirus outbreak, our venue won’t allow events until further notice, so we had to postpone until later in the year. The problem is that I’m pregnant. My family is very conservative, and do not believe that my SO and I should live together until we are married. I’m due in May, so the new plan seems to be to elope now and have a reception later in the year. Before we started planning the wedding, I had never really dreamed of having a big wedding, but my family wanted me to, offered to pay for it, and helped me plan the whole thing. I was just really starting to get excited about it, and now the thought of not having the big wedding is making me really upset, but I don’t want to wait either because I don’t want to have to raise our child for her first few months alone with him only being able to visit a couple times a week. What should I do?