Postcard style save the date

I think that the scratch off idea is cute

I think the scratch off idea is your best option. I will warn you, post card style save the dates tend to get ruined during transit. I have received them ripped and with black marks all over them.

I actually decided against postcard STDs because I didn't want the date and location of my wedding going through the mail. Not necessarily because of postal workers, but we have had our mail stolen before, and if there is an STD in there with a date and location it's an easy way to know when the homeowner won't be home. I would spring for the card style ones for that reason, as well as the cards getting destroyed.

In your case, I would put your wedding website password on the postcard if that's the style you really want, but mail the postcards out in envelopes. This way, you'll have the privacy of keeping your passcode safe, and you'll protect the postcards from getting ruined in the mail. Nearly every postcard save the date I've received in the mail has arrived ripped or dirty, so this would insure they stay safe!

That's a really cute idea! i used postcards for my rsvp and i will say that by the time it comes to me, it appears kind of battered