Post Wedding Thank You Notes

You only need to send thank you cards for gifts--not for people who attended and did not give a gift, and certainly not for those who declined.

Why would you send someone a thank you if they didn't attend or give a gift? What are you thanking them for?

I wouldn't send someone a thank you card for a text, a text back would be sufficient.

You can skip those that didn't come or send a gift. We had our cards printed with blank backs and hand wrote all of our thank you messages. "Thanks for the xxx gift, Thanks for attending etc"

I would only send thank you cards to those that came to the wedding, those who attended and brought gifts and those who did not attend but sent a gift of well wishes.

I would only send thank you cards to those who sent a gift or a card to keep things simple

I am only sending to those who gave a gift whether that was at the wedding or after. It comes out to about 35 thank you cards when originally sent out about 55 invites. Just weed out your address list according to the cards and noted gifts you got and you'll be good!