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Devoted October 2019

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Star, on June 25, 2019 at 4:53 PM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 16
Random and perhaps rhetorical/dumb question since a lot of these really can be personal preference and/or a religious belief precedent.
So I’ve thought about it and what’re y’all doing right after you say I do/first kiss then are announced as husband and wife?
Seen a lot of newlyweds wall down the aisle and remain there to greet guests before going to the reception. However we will be married in the church and would like to get pictures in there of of course FH and I and our wedding party/immediate family, pictures of us outside etc... all before going to the reception
so doesn’t it make sense to just do our vows, kiss, be announced all that as normal however just not walk back to the back fo the church to greet everyone that way we’re already upfront ready to go for indoor pictures of us & just greet people at our reception?
Or would that be too awkward and do y’all think that no matter how charismatic our pastor is that he won’t be able to transition this smoothly?
just not sure what to do because we have limited time for photographer and videographer so I just want to make sure we can save time where we can to also ensure we have everything captured by them that we’re not just paying for but also hoping for.

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Latest activity by Courtney, on June 26, 2019 at 4:36 PM
  • Star
    Devoted October 2019
    Star ·
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    *seen a lot of newlyweds walk down the aisle...
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  • Danielle
    Master June 2019
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    What you would do is walk down the aisle (called a recessional), and go hide, go back in through another door....anything to not be at the exit greeting guests. That is what the reception is for. The recessional will give your ceremony an ending without being awkward.

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  • M
    Legend June 2019
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    So I personally walked out with my husband and waited a little bit but then left right after to get the reception first.
    For our best man, they stayed to take pictures at their chapel. But after kissing they walked down the aisle purely so their photographer could get those pictures and then they walked back up to the front to take pics there.
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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
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    I would think it was super odd for the ceremony to end and the couple to just stand there. Not only because I've never seen it happen but...what are you going to do? Stand there and watch everyone leave? I also think it's important to take a minute or two alone with your brand new spouse and soak it all in. Receiving lines definitely aren't a necessity, I think they're outdated, but I think there are plenty of other options besides just standing at the front of the church and waiting on photos.

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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
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    I would walk out & leave, then have your pastor & ushers help escort guests out of the church. Then you can go back into the church (through a side entrance) to take pictures. If you stay in the church, people will want to come up and talk to you and get in the way of pictures.

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  • Kelly
    VIP October 2020
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    In general I think the bride and groom go out the doors to indicate everyone else should head to the reception and then they loop around a different door to get the photos while everyone is in motion to reception/cocktail hour.
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    We walked out, then came back up a side aisle and did kind of a hybrid seat release/receiving line so we could quickly make sure we thanked everyone and saw them. Took about 15 minutes, then we went back up and took pictures in the church. I think it would be very odd if you two didn't at least process back down the aisle.

    we did that because - Just my preference - but I really dislike "table visits" during dinner/reception - they interrupt people eating, take forever, and bride and groom never get to really enjoy dinner. Or dinner lasts FOREVER bc everyone is waiting for that to finish. But I also think just assuming you'll talk to everyone at the reception is risky.

    Overall, doesn't matter how you do it, but you should absolutely 100% speak to everyone at your wedding/thank them for coming/etc.

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  • Mcskipper
    Rockstar July 2018
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    You more or less have to walk out and leave for exiting to start and move smoothly — remember you’ll be the first ones out, so no one will be there waiting for you to greet you, and you can move freely and immediately head elsewhere to take pictures while people make their exit. You can’t well take posed picture in the church while people are moving around to leave, so you’d mostly be standing up there waiting awkwardly for a while while people filter out. Plus, as long as you guys are in there, people will linger !
    Generally, you all walking back down the aisle is what signals people to leave .

    We did photos immediately after the ceremony . We weren’t in a church, but basically, we walked back down the aisle, and then immediately off to a corner with our photographer, without waiting for all the guests to start coming out (thus getting caught up in greeting)
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  • Michaela
    Super May 2020
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    We aren't having ushers (because I think they are so not necessary) so I'm considering this idea of bride & broom releasing people from their seats. You said it took about 15 minutes? How many people abouts? I want to do a receiving line but keeping the time in check is important to me too, so if dismissing people from the ceremony is a little shorter I'd like to do that!

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  • Dita
    Expert August 2019
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    We are walking down and out the aisle then doing a receiving line. After our receiving line, we are heading back inside the church to do pictures.
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  • Mandi
    Master October 2020
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    This is what we are planning to do as well.
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  • Daria
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    We walked out for the pics (it was like 30 ft of walking so not far, lol) but then we turned around and went right back. We wanted one group shot with everyone that came (less than 50 ppl) and the ceremony location was the best place, plus everyone was already together. Then we signed the license and herded the people we needed for family pics outside for that.

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  • Michelle
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    My cousin had a church wedding and wanted to do pictures inside after everyone left so they walked back up the aisle after they ceremony and went around to another section of the church while people were exciting then came back in for their photos. It might cause guests to hang out to congratulate you or chat while you are waiting to take your photos if you don't exit for a few minutes.
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  • Pattie
    Expert June 2020
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    I don’t think you need to go down and greet everyone if your concerned about timing. Just have your officiant tell guests the you can’t wait to talk with them at the reception hall as husband and wife, and to not wait on you.

    You will miss the grand exit as husband and wife but you can do a grand entrance if you want at the reception hall
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    We had about 175 at our wedding. We started with our parents row and basically just hugged everyone and said thank you and then moved on. It goes very quickly as long as you keep yourself in check and don't have a full on conversation with everyone. It also helps to have music in the background the whole time because it feels more like part of the recessional, as opposed to the end of the wedding where people are just standing around. It worked really well for us!

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  • Courtney
    Master December 2019
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    If time and lighting permit us to do so, we're going outside to take photos. If not, our venue has a secret hallway for us to hide from guests so we can go back in to take pictures.
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