Anyone else feel low key regret or weirdness about who was left out of your bridal party, after the wedding? Like we had our reasons for choosing certain people of course, but 1 month post-wedding I was at a friend’s 4th of July party and she’s talking about how she’s planning to propose to her girlfriend soon, and then another friend who was there was saying she’s planning her 5 year vow renewal (she and her husband had a very small non-traditional wedding but are planning for their vow renewal to be more like a traditional “wedding”). So both friends are talking about this and then turn to me and to each other and are like “and of course you’ll both be bridesmaids.”
Neither of them were my bridesmaids, so while I’m really flattered they want me to be one for them, I feel super weird about having not included them. Of course I know being a bridesmaid isn’t a tit-for-tat thing and clearly if they want me to be theirs, they’re not salty about not being one of mine, but I just feel so awkward about it. Like honestly maybe they aren’t thinking into it as much as I am, but it feels like a huge elephant in the room for me.
Anyone else deal with this, on either side of it (either being me—the bridesmaid who didn’t include someone and then is asked to be a bridesmaid, or being the bride who wasn’t included in someone else’s bridal party but wants that person to be their bridesmaid)? Let me know your stories please. Of course it’s too late for me to go back in time and do anything differently but 🤷🏻♀️ It’ll make me feel better to know I’m not the only one haha
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