We had a perfect wedding, but the night before the ceremony we had an argument with a lot of drama.
Even though we both had a great time, my guilt and memories of the argument are clouding out the good moments and won't go away. I feel inadequate, ashamed, and trapped because I can't reverse the past. Our relationship was very good before the wedding, but the planning stressed us out a lot. It now feels traumatic to think of that day, look at photos, etc. It feels phony and not authentic..even though it was. I feel tremendous guilt that my sadness is taking away from her being able to savour the day.
