Post-Wedding Announcements

If you posted a picture on social media and the people who you wanted to see (and commented) saw it, then just post a wedding picture on social media and they will know you got married then! No need for cards. Social media is your friend here. Mailed cards look gift grabby.

FH shared our wedding website on his Facebook. I'm like, "dude, don't share it on FB. We're not adding people to the list.". I'm going to make it password protected, so those that get the card in the invite, will be able to access it for information.

For after the wedding, we'll probably just do a Facebook post, however my mom wants us to send a few pictures to family we're not inviting. -_-

I just didn't share any details on social media. I posted a photo of when we FH proposed last summer and that's all I have posted. We were limited on who we could invite and I didn't want to give people the wrong idea.

Send a Christmas card the Christmas after the wedding using one of your favorite pics!

@Rachel, I was going to suggest that too, but her wedding is in January, so that would be almost a year after the fact so not really notice of her wedding.

Just send out a wedding announcement after the fact in the mail to everyone...one of the "we did" announcements

First thing I learned on wedding wire, don't post about the wedding unless it happened in the past

What did you expect?

Traditionally, you mail wedding announcements the day of your wedding, for precisely this reason. You've let people know you got married, but too late for them to angle for invitations.

Delete the post

Yes delete the post, my cousin had a very small wedding only here parents, the four of them went out for a beautiful meal afterwards. She sent a lovely email to those closest to them on both sides with a few photos. But then is was different we all knew she was getting married and had asked her to send on photos.

If any one asks you directly about the wedding nip it in the butt and before they say anything tell them you are only having a small wedding. That was what she did, whenever she was talking to people and they asked about the wedding she told them she was only having their parents that was it.

Don’t do anything. Sending out announcements or posting online after still seems gift grabby and rubs it in that they weren’t invited.

We plan on posting pics to facebook after our wedding.

I posted when we got engaged, and then the day after we got married. I agree with @Rusty that all that's really necessary is to post a photo or change your relationship status on FB after the wedding.

Like @Nicole said, it's probably safer to not post much about it. Less chance people will get the wrong idea.

I ended up explaining to the person that asked (one or my out of town aunts) that it was small and would honestly be a waste for her to drive 10 hours for a ceremony and toast...because that’s all it is. I also deleted the post and will probably end up posting a couple of photos and the highlight video along with a Facebook status change. And announcements to old folks without Facebook.

We got married 10.10 with only are parents but wanted to celebrate with our friends and family so this is what we did! Good luck! We never kept our plans a secret. Everyone was informed of our plans from the start of planning.