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Courtney
Dedicated August 2019

Post-elopement brunch

Courtney, on November 17, 2018 at 5:29 PM Posted in Planning 0 5
*long post*
Hi there! I am looking for some opinions and input on this idea please!

FH and I are eloping and it’s just us and our moh and best man. No family is flying out.
We are wanting to do a post-elopement celebration when we return, but not like a full on reception. Inviting just mainly family but a few close friends/coworkers.. so maybe 50ish people?

We were thinking:
A brunch buffet at a local (nicer) restaurant the weekend we return from our elopement.

Pretty much wanting it to be like an “I do bbq” except, obviously in the AM for brunch buffet.

Im just looking for opinions, thoughts, ideas, etc. open to anything really about this topic.

My other questions:
should we pay for our guest buffet cost? It’s about $16 a person, so not super expensive but I wasn’t sure if this is something we should feel obligated to pay for or should pay for?

Do I need a “party favor”?

Okay I think that’s all 😅 any input would be helpful! Thanks!!

5 Comments

Latest activity by Courtney, on November 17, 2018 at 6:04 PM
  • Kelly
    Champion October 2018
    Kelly ·
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    You should definitely pay. Party favors aren’t necessary unless it’s something you feel strongly about having and it fits in your budget!
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  • B
    Super March 2019
    Bailey ·
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    If you are inviting people out to celebrate you and your FS, then yes you need to pay. Favors are always optional.
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  • M
    Expert September 2018
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    I think that sounds really nice! I don't think you need any favors or anything. Maybe you could find a small gift from where your getting married? But it's not necessary at all. I think you should pay for brunch. You could have a picture or mini album printed to share with your family to pass around.
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  • Kayla
    September 2020
    Kayla ·
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    I also think you should pay and don’t need the favors. I also Like Morgan’s idea of the wedding album around or people to look at pictures. If you aren’t in a position to pay I woulnd go to an expensive place and let people know ahead of time that they will have to pay. And in that case I probably would offer a favor of some sort as a thank you.
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  • Courtney
    Dedicated August 2019
    Courtney ·
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    Love that album idea Smiley smile!! Thanks everyone! Yes we planned on paying, I just wanted to see what everyone else thinks! Thanks so much!
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