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Emma
Beginner September 2020

Possible postponing

Emma, on July 25, 2020 at 10:36 PM Posted in Planning 0 6
We are trying to figure out what to do now. Our date is 9/3/2020, 39 days away. Our venue capacity is at 50% but most likely will be at 25% or 36 people by our date. we originally had 100 people we wanted to invite, we dropped it to 60 to be at the 50% capacity. If it goes to 25% we will want to postpone our reception until next year. I want to have a plan b set up just in case. We will get married on our date either way, I just don't know what to do if we end up postponing. We were thinking of doing the ceremony at a park or at someone's house. Should we still feed people after the ceremony? Should we just have a ceremony then just be done? I don't like the idea of having to pay for 2 party's but I love my venue so much I don't want to miss out on not celebrating there. What is everyone else doing that are all getting married on their date but postponed their reception??

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  • Nicole
    Beginner August 2020
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    I am still getting married on my date and postponed the larger celebration to next year as well. We decided to just have a very small ceremony outside at our wedding venue this year (25 people max). Our venue luckily has been very flexible so we ordered some cheaper food from an outside place to have delivered that day! It was definitely not ideal to pay for 2 parties. But eventually we realized that this day will be our actual wedding day and want it to be as special as possible.
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  • Katie
    VIP August 2020
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    Hi Emma! I’m August bride and our venue worked out a large tent outdoors and we moved our ceremony outdoors as well. Invited 160 and about 100 are coming. I’m in PA so outdoor weddings allowed under 250. We have come to accept the pros such as: 1. Our closest family and friends will be there, 2. Happy to put wedding planning behind us, 3. More quality time with each guest, 4. Our vendors are going to be swamped next year so we get a lot of their attention as for some their only wedding this summer, 5. We don’t know when this pandemic is going to end and may get worse in winter. Is your venue allow outdoor space? It was a game changer for us.
    I completely understand what you are going through as a fellow COVID bride ❤️ Hope this helps and just remember to make the decision that’s best for you and your soon to be husband 🥰🌺🥂
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  • Sarah
    Expert August 2020
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    I have already postponed once and we are 1 week away! If something happened in the next 7 days, i have to be honest. I’m done. Getting married either way and moving on with life.
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  • Yasmine
    Master October 2020
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    My fiancé and I are doing our ceremony in October and the wedding in March. We will still be doing a “ceremony” at the wedding because I’m October most people won’t be there. You could always do dinner after the elopement ceremony and have people pay for their own meals. Especially if it’s an intimate gathering
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  • Emma
    Beginner September 2020
    Emma ·
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    Sadly our venue does not have an outdoor space 😔 this is so hard with all of the uncertainty of what will happen next year. It'll all work out eventually ❤️
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  • VIP August 2020
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    We postponed the reception we had planned at our venue to next year and we're getting married outside of my parents house next month. I do think you need to feed people/allow them to celebrate with you after the ceremony, but it doesn't have to be a whole THING if you don't want to pay for a second party. If you really want something simple, after the ceremony you can stay at the park/house and do a toast with some socially distanced drinks and appetizers/desserts and then call it a day.
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