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Lynne
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Possible minor dress situation

Lynne, on February 21, 2022 at 7:06 PM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 10
There's a chance that my FH saw a glimpse of my dress. I'll be talking to him later, but I don't know what to do if he did see it. The dress hasn't been ordered yet it will be in a week. If he did see the dress should I change dress depending on how much he saw?


He doesn't want to see my dress until our wedding day. Not superstitious but with this being our second marriage (to each other) my first dress was not a wedding dress. It was a white dress a lady would wear to an office job.

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Latest activity by Mrs.evans, on February 21, 2022 at 9:23 PM
  • Rosie
    Master February 2022
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    I wouldn't worry. Even if he definitely saw it, for a prolonged period of time, it will look totally different once it is altered to fit you, and you're all dressed up with hair, makeup, shoes and accessories. Plus with 6 months to go, he's unlikely to remember much from a glimpse anyway! Rest easy.

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  • Lynne
    Dedicated August 2022
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    The dress I selected was one that was on my mind for 3 years. I looked at others and I'm not interested in any of them.
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  • Rosie
    Master February 2022
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    Only more reason to not worry about a potential glimpse! This is as much of a problem as you'd like to make it, IMO.

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  • Jasmine S.
    VIP May 2022
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    It's possible he won't remember it! A lot of men don't know jack about women's fashion, so they don't register the details
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  • Michelle
    Rockstar December 2022
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    Most men don’t remember what clothes look like. Plus on a hanger or a model, the dress will look completely different on you. Nothing to stress over.
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  • Lynne
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    True, he sometimes does. But I'm hoping he didn't see anything.
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  • Lynne
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    True, but at first I was a little sad. This dress has been on my mind for 3 years.
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  • G
    Dedicated September 2023
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    I wouldn't worry about it. It won't look anything like it will look when it's on you, with your hair done, and a gleaming smile. Having a dream dress that you've been looking at for 3 years is special. I've seen your posts with the complicated feelings over your dresses - and I'm so glad that you got the one you love. He won't remember or won't know what he saw. I hope he didn't see anything, so you don't have to stress. But if he did catch a glimpse - ask him to forget. He will. But no matter what, I promise you, he'll be floored when he sees how incredibly beautiful you look on your wedding day. This isn't worth changing your plans, causing more stress, or worrying. Nothing he could have seen will compare. It will still be an extremely special moment when he sees you, and a very special day.

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  • Lynne
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    True, looking at other dresses does nothing to me. I'm not seeing anything else I like.
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  • Mrs.evans
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    Hi Lynne oh no but men will forget that he saw it within a few weeks lol lol my FH said that he seen my dress it was my fault because we were going through some pieces of wedding stuff that I had on my phone. But he didn't see the whole thing. Lynne he won't remember but dont change your dress he is going too love how beautiful you are
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