Polite Way to Say Not to Take the Centerpieces Home

Hi. I'm renting the vases for my centerpieces so I can't have guests take them either. I'm gonna have the DJ make an announcement as well as have both mothers keep an eye out.

View Quoted Comment Ok. That sounds like a good idea.

You could also add a small sign on each table that says something like "please don't take me i'm borrowed" I saw that at a wedding once and thought it was cute

People take centerpieces? I had no idea! Thank you for the warning!

View Quoted Comment Oh yeah! My aunt encouraged people to take hers (I got one from my step-mom because I stayed home to watch their dogs -the wedding was a state away so they made a weekend of it) and I'll be encouraging people to take a few of mine. My FMIL is making them and doesnt want to store them and I don't have room for 15 centerpieces.

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I definitely understand if the wedding couple wants to have guests take them and for sure making an announcement that it's okay to take one, but I would have never guessed anyone would just take them without permission. Learn something new everyday!

A cute card with, "Thanks for partying with my mom and dad. But I need to go home with them so please leave me behind."

Our DOC specifically asked if we were going to allow guests to take the centerpieces home. We said no since I am also using a lot of my own items. I assume she'll stop anyone leaving and tell them politely that they can't take them. I would have your DOC (or security, or whoever has all-seeing eyes lol) be alert to keep people from taking them.

Having the DJ make an announcement is a great idea. I’ve been worried about family friends taking our centerpieces home because I know they’ve done it at other parties. I’m planning on selling our centerpieces afterwards, so I definitely want to keep them all.

It's very common at the weddings I've attended for the guests to take the centerpieces home. If you have a day-of coordinator, I would suggest you let them know in advance so they could keep an eye out at the end of the night. We did not make an announcement, but did spread through word-of-mouth that they were welcome to take the flowers but to leave the (rented) vases behind.

We're going to have our DOC and wedding party help to keep guests from taking the centerpieces. I think the note is cute, too, though.

I would definitely add a card to each table.

Is it common in your group to take home centerpieces? I haven't ever heard of this.

It is common where I live that people take centerpieces. Our centerpieces are the venues, and not for keeps. I'm going to have the DJ make an announcement... I also have 2x aunts that are known for taking anything that is not attached home, so I will let the DOC know about them, to keep an eye on them.

Tell your dj to announce it that they are not for taking! That's extremely rude of people if there is no announcement/game to win the centerpiece! I am reselling my lanterns, can't take 3 tiered floating candles home, and the floral centerpiece boxes I might just give to bridesmaids or grandparents/parents. There will only be 4 of the flower boxes sooo not enough to go around.