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Super April 2017

Plus Size Dress Shopping Anxiety

FutureRios, on August 19, 2016 at 2:41 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 25

So I am going to two different places to try dresses on tomorrow (Saturday), so today I went to get some shapewear. I'm plus-sized and knew I would feel more confident with something to smoothe out my lumps. I have terrible shopping anxiety and never like anything. I basically had a mini breakdown...

So I am going to two different places to try dresses on tomorrow (Saturday), so today I went to get some shapewear. I'm plus-sized and knew I would feel more confident with something to smoothe out my lumps. I have terrible shopping anxiety and never like anything. I basically had a mini breakdown to my mom because I couldn't find shapewear I felt good in, and also, dressing room mirrors are HORRIBLE.

In the end, I found something that will work for trying dresses on, but now I'm really nervous I won't find anything I like or feel beautiful in when attempting to find a wedding dress. Yes, I know, I just have body/confidence issues, but I'm just really anxious about it.

Has anyone felt this way before?

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  • Ms. MRose
    Super April 2017
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    Congrats!!

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  • Elizabeth
    Dedicated May 2017
    Elizabeth ·
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    I also had a lot of anxiety about it, but realistically sample dresses don't fit many people. I researched stores that carried a variety in plus size dresses. To my surprise I looked amazing in all of the dresses I tried on, even the smaller ones from the mannequins! I ended up having an amazing experience and found my dress that day. hope that you feel special on your shopping day.

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  • MrsMarsh
    Super August 2016
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    So happy for you!

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  • jessabrynn10
    Dedicated June 2017
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    I'm plus size too and yes, sometimes it was uncomfortable, but most shops have bigger sizes to try on! I promise everything will be okay and you will probably be the only one who notices any 'flaws'. Good luck Smiley smile

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  • ThomKat18
    Savvy July 2017
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    I so dreaded trying on wedding dresses because of my body. I scheduled a bridal appointment with a popular boutique in my city, and talked to her about whether there would be dresses to try in my size. They provided a corset (which was awesome!) and I had a great time trying dresses on in front of my MOH, mom, aunt, and cousin. I'm not going to lie and say I felt awesome about my body, but I did find a dress I liked a lot and I felt pretty. A good consultant is important too.

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