Plus one for bm

I think a plus one is a nicety for the bridal party. They're going to be there for you and have a lot more money invested than a regular gift. I think its just up to you though. If you can afford it and you don't mind the extra, I would give them a plus one. But that's just us.

I believe all wedding party members should be given plus ones.

I think every wedding party member should be given a plus one, unless there are personal reasons like you said. If you don't have a problem with the friend, why not? And the other BMs should have plus ones too in my opinion. Bridesmaids do so much.

I think if she was understanding and didn’t make a fuss about her SO not being invited, it would be kind to allow her a plus one.

I personally would be uncomfortable with this. Does she know other people who will already be at the wedding?

View Quoted Comment I do honestly think this is true too though.

I agree with the other previous posters in that if you think about it a bridal party spends much more money in regards to your wedding day and should be allowed a plus one. She clearly does not want to be there alone because even though she's there for your big day you're also going to be spending that time with your husband at the reception. Maybe she doesn't necessarily feel like she has a strong connection with the other ladies in the bridal party and just want someone to have a good time with. However yes if you do allow her to bring the plus one thing should extend the offer to the other bridesmaids too. Regardless of whether you know this woman are not the question is can you afford to do so? If you can budget them bringing essos and I would just let them.

Considering she is "understanding" that her boyfriend is not invited, I would give her the plus 1 for her friend.

Honestly I am shocked she wad so gracious about not bringing her bf. Def give her a plus one if you can swing it.

I would let her have it

Yes, give her the plus one.