Another venting session for me haha
My moh recently did something that’s still angering me lolShe was the first person I told that I was getting married, because we have been friends for a long time and used to plan my wedding before I was even in a relationship. I told her very early on that I couldn’t afford to give plus ones, and the only people getting guests were those in relationships, as is proper etiquette. She mentioned that she assumed she’d have a plus one so she already told her best friend he was going with her. I was annoyed, but I’ve spent time with him a few times before and like him a lot, so I brushed it off and told her I’d just give him his own invite.
Fast forward to a few days ago, I handed her her invitation, and she opened it and saw “we have reserved 1 seat in your honor” and she goes “so I can only bring one person?” And I said “….yeah. Yourself.” She starts complaining and saying that she thought she would get a plus one (why are we back here, I have no clue) and I mentioned that she already invited her friend and I accommodated, but each seat is expensive and I’m on a budget. She kept pushing and saying that she was planning on bringing someone I would “LOOOVE” and pushed and pushed that I reluctantly gave in. I’m now realizing that anyone I LOOOOVE would already have an invite, and I have a strong feeling she is inviting yet ANOTHER one of her childhood friends, who is very nice, but I wouldn’t consider a close enough friend to invite to my wedding. I’m now regretting allowing the additional plus one. I don’t believe she means to be selfish, because as far as she knows, I do enjoy her friend. But she seems to not realize that she’s inviting HER close friends to my wedding. Her “special guest” is someone I would be excited to hang out with on another day, but I wouldnt really consider inviting him had she not already pushed it. She then proceeded to push another guest, who was a mutual friend of ours from college. He came in my last year, so I never got too close with him. She has continued hanging out with him after graduation and has become close with him, and she tried to push an invite for him as well. It just feels like she’s forgetting that this isn’t some big hangout, or a friends reunion - it’s my wedding day. Anyway, rant over hahaTl;dr - My moh pushed to somehow get two plus ones (and tried for a third) after I specifically told her I wasn’t giving any plus ones to anyone
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