Savvy August 2019

Plus 1's

borntobeabill_2019, on July 1, 2019 at 10:50 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 16
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One of my bridesmaids just got engaged. I have never met her s/o. Since she is now engaged, do I need to invite her s/o?

*Her s/o would have initially been invited, but I literally just found out about her when she told me they got engaged.


  • Melle
    Rockstar June 2019
    Melle Online ·
    Considering she's also your bridesmaid, yes that'd be nice if you have the room for it.
  • Kelly
    Master October 2018
    Kelly ·
    Absolutely. All significant others need to be invited by name.
  • Cheryl
    Expert October 2020
    Cheryl ·
    Yes. Engaged couples are always invited together, particularly if one person in the couple is in the bridal party.
  • Sarah
    VIP September 2019
    Sarah Online ·
    Her SO should have already been included but yes you absolutely need to invite her FS.
  • Kelly
    VIP October 2020
    Kelly ·
    Yes. That's akin to a spouse.
  • Caytlyn
    Champion November 2019
    Caytlyn ·

    Yes, absolutely. Her partner should have been invited even before they were engaged.

  • borntobeabill_2019
    Savvy August 2019
    borntobeabill_2019 ·
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    Her s/o would have initially been invited, but I literally just found out about her when she told me they got engaged.

  • Allie
    Rockstar August 2019
    Allie ·

    Yes, her partner should be invited.

  • Christine
    Devoted September 2020
    Christine ·

    Yes, I'd definitely invite her fiancee (as long as it wouldn't throw off your final numbers too much).

  • Nikita
    VIP April 2019
    Nikita ·

    Yes, definitely invite her. Luckily, since your'e at the invite stage, you'll likely have at least one decline that will make room for her.

  • FutureMrsD
    Legend July 2019
    FutureMrsD ·

    Yes, I would invite her. We invited all significant others whether we had met them or not!

  • Kimberly
    Expert April 2020
    Kimberly ·

    Yes, that would be the proper thing to do as it's her fiance and not a random just happened boyfriend.

  • Stephanie
    Devoted November 2020
    Stephanie ·

    Yes ma'am, invite her fiancee.

  • Tina
    Super August 2019
    Tina ·

    I would say so. She will want her there for sure

  • CourtneyBrittain
    Master August 2019
    CourtneyBrittain ·

    Definitely! I gave all our BM/GM a plus one whether they were in a relationship or not because apparently (according to my mom) that's what is proper. Only the ones with a SO chose to use the plus one though!

  • Alyssa
    Super September 2019
    Alyssa ·

    Yes you should for invite her significant other

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