Planning.

Hey there Brides!
i posted earlier about being stressed and feeling alone with all my wedding plans, so I thought I’d make another post here giving some of the details I’ve come up with already in hopes that someone out there can give me more advice or give me pointers.

here we go:

I’m getting married 8/13/21. My fiancé is Greek. We are unable to marry in a Greek Orthodox Church as there aren’t any in my area of North Dakota. I’d love to incorporate some tradition some how. Ideas?

I am an only child. I am almost 40. Never married. Mother of 2 girls. My color is going to be Tiffany blue and grey. I am wanting to include my girls as much as possible. For one. I want my girls to walk me down the isle. Instead of giving me away I want them to use the verbiage of “sharing” me with Johnny. After vows I want him to do a small set of vows for the girls and give them a special
necklace. I also want to have a big wooden heart cut out, and our names in puzzle piece shapes. I want us to be able to put the puzzle together with each of our name pieces.

My FH mother has passed on, along with his grand parents. He does not know his biological father and his step father and he are estranged. I plan to have a reserved area of seats for our family who has passed as well as flowers in their memory. I will have him give my mother a rose and I will put a rose on the seat his mother would have sat.

At my reception I thought it would be fun to play on Friday the 13th, as I LOVE horror movies and maybe the wedding party March can come in wearing “Jason” masks. Just for fun. I plan on having a photo booth and I plan on having a candy and dessert table with my favorite candies, bars, cookies and baklava for the Greeks! i also plan on having an activity/coloring area for children.

And this is where my planning and thinking has stopped.

anyone else got any advice for me?!