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Just Said Yes November 2020

Planning help

Ally, on June 30, 2020 at 3:45 AM Posted in Planning 0 5

First off sorry about the rant.. I just wish I had someone to talk me through this wedding. I have a large family and my sisters are all bridesmaids and my older sister deemed herself MOH which I am fine with. If she would help me. We are 6 months away if we can even have it due to COVID restrictions. I am a visual person and it’s hard not having everything here in person to see how they will look together. I’m tired of everyone telling me that it’s what we want, when I can’t even pinpoint what it is that I want. When we first got engaged my mother and sister made fun of me for changing my colors 3 times in 6 months. I wish someone could help me out and tell me if it is going to look stupid or not. Sorry for the rant, if you would like to help please message me🙂


Latest activity by Lynnie, on July 1, 2020 at 5:52 PM
  • VIP August 2020
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    I'm sorry you're going through this. If you're happy with your color choices that's really the only thing that matters, but if you want an outside opinion that's not from your mom/sisters, you can definitely post stuff on here. Do you have any pictures of things that you have or are thinking about getting? If you post images on this thread, I'd be happy to look at them for you and I'm sure other brides would be as well.
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  • Margaret
    Master October 2020
    Margaret ·
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    Sorry you're feeling stressed and confused at this time, it's quite trying for all of us Covid brides. But remember, planning your wedding falls on you and your FH and your MOH / BMs are not required to help in anyway unless they offer. You have an entire forum of people that are more than willing to help offer their advice but at the end of the day, the choice belongs to you and your FH.

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    Rockstar July 2019
    Veronica ·
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    I'm so sorry you are going through this. I am a very visual personal as well. I found Pinterest very helpful. I would look up weddings with your colors to get an idea. Here's a link to my Pinterest for my wedding so you can see how I got ideas for everything I wanted. As you can see, I had a section for every little thing. I changed colors a couple of times. The first was because my brother-in-law was going to have the same wedding colors as us and their wedding was six weeks after us. Then they changed their colors so we went back to our original colors. About two months before the wedding, I added blush to our color scheme. If you tell me your wedding colors, I can try to give you some suggestions on what might look good.
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    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    It makes a lot of sense - i remember the closer i got to my wedding, the more unsure i was of the choices i had made. in the end it's just kinda like make a choice and let it go and move onto the next thing or else you'll be running in a circle

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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
    Lynnie ·
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    It's ok Ally! That's what the WeddingWire Community is here for!

    I changed my mind on decor details and songs a million times throughout planning, and it can definitely be difficult to visualize how everything will come together! You're definitely not the only one who has felt that way. Smiley heart

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