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Dedicated June 2020

Plan c

Courtney, on May 7, 2020 at 8:43 AM Posted in Community Conversations 0 6
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Plan A: April 18th, 2020 bride with 110 guests 😫

Plan B: June 20th, 2020 with 110 guests 😫
Plan C: June 20th with 50 guests if allowed or June 20th wedding with 20 people as that is what our state allows right now and a vow renewal next year at some point with reception
I hate this so much! I hate it most of all for my fiance. I have been married before, but he deserves the wedding we have planned. He deserves to see me in my dress. He deserves to be able to wear his tux he picked out. He deserves a day surrounded with love with all our closest family and friends.
And I hate myself for playing the "what if" game. What if he had proposed sooner? What if we would have picked an earlier date in 2020? Would it have made any difference? I told my grandma yesterday that I wouldn't wish this stress on anyone. I'm suppose to go for my final fitting of my dress tomorrow and I'm not looking forward to it at all 😫😥

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Latest activity by Lynnie, on May 8, 2020 at 4:04 PM
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    Devoted August 2020
    Elle ·
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    I also feel like "What if he had proposed sooner?" and then I feel horrible for thinking it.

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    Dedicated June 2020
    Courtney ·
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    Me too girl!! In my situation, we went to look at rings in the mall and then I mentioned going to a local store. He let it slip that we didn't need to go there because he already had the ring lol. This was in November 2018. He didn't propose until June 2019.
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    Devoted August 2020
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    We got engaged June 2019 too!!! We had been together for 7 years. Getting married was always definite, and we were even planning our wedding (not specifics, just speculating) before we got engaged. But he wanted to fix some of his finances before proposing, which is understandable. Sometimes I just feel like, "Well what if he had proposed January 2019 instead, we could have had a January or February 2020 wedding, and avoided all this." Or "What if he proposed in 2018, we could have had a 2019 wedding." I guess we could have also had a less-than-a-year engagement too and still have done January or February, but I also didn't want to be in a rush.

    It is a mess, and it sucks, and I hate this.

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  • Kate
    Expert October 2020
    Kate ·
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    Ugh, I'm so sorry you're feeling this pain. Is there anyway to postpone the wedding out further?

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    Dedicated June 2020
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    We are getting married on June 20th regardless, but if we can only have 20 people we will do a vow renewal in 2021 with reception because at this point I'm done with 2020
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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
    Lynnie ·
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    I'm so sorry Courtney!! Covid is making it impossible to make plans right now and it's understandably infuriating! Thinking of you Smiley heart


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