I will start our saying both my sister and I are engaged. I picked a date four weeks after her because 1. I wanted fall but couldn’t afford it this year. 2. I wanted October but she chose that so we went with November.
One day, I had told her that I toured this one BEAUTIFUL venue and we loved it so much that I was going to put a deposit down. That is when she said she wanted to view the property but couldn’t because her fiancé wasn’t able to make it there. Wasn’t much of it anymore except me feeling like she wanted it more because I did and was actually go through with it.
Time goes by and she picks a different venue. That one falls through and she says she has looked at a ton of other venues but she cannot just let go of the one I have. Yesterday, she tells me she put a deposit down on MY venue!! I’m beyond livid.
Heres my reasoning. 1. We have the same family, it’s embarrassing and also annoying because nobody is going to drive out almost an hour away for the same place back to back. 2. That was MY venue. My picture. My wedding. Now I have to share that?! I feel like my day isn’t special anymore. It’s going to look exactly like hers and I’m pissed. Am I wrong for being so upset? I voiced my frustration with her and her excuses were she told me in the beginning she wanted the place NOT UNTIL I told her I was putting a deposit down and she hadn’t seen it yet! There’s so many other venues but this place has a lot of windows and she just has to have the freaking windows! She doesn’t care and is still going forward with it because hers is first so why should she care? It makes me look like an idiot. This is to the point where she told me “she hates me and I’m the worst sister.” Which she tells me all the time anyway so it didn’t bother me. HELP!
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