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Stacey, on June 26, 2020 at 10:12 PM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 4

I had lunch with my maid of honor and she told me that one of my bridesmaids isn't 100% comfortable being in my wedding photos. The bridesmaid she is referring to doesn't like her picture taken, but she has never once said to me she wouldn't be in photos. I was a bridesmaid in her wedding and she had a ton of wedding photos taken. I can't imagine not having her in any of my wedding photos or our wedding video. She hasn't said anything to me yet, but my maid of honor said that she told this bridesmaid that she thinks she should talk to me. I'm not sure what to say or do. I love my friend dearly and want her to be comfortable, but I also really want all of my bridesmaids in my wedding photos. Has anyone every dealt with an issue similar to this? If so, how did you deal with it?

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Latest activity by Becky, on June 27, 2020 at 11:00 AM
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    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    Never dealt with that but I’m sure it doesn’t mean she won’t take photos. It just sounds like she doesn’t want a whole lot taken. So maybe you can do the ones with bridal party and then all of wedding party first.
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    Champion June 2019
    Gen ·
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    Honestly I wouldn’t say anything. Just go about business as normal and your friend can say something to you if she wants.
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    Master July 2019
    Hannah ·
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    I agree with Gen. I would just let it be until/unless that person comes to you, and then you two can figure out what will work best for you both.
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    VIP July 2017
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    It sounds like your bridesmaid told your MOH something and your MOH took it upon herself to mention it to you. Were I you, I would wait until the bridesmaid actually said something. Also, you said you were in her wedding and there were a lot of pictures then - has her body changed since then? It's possible that she's become uncomfortable because of some kind of change within herself. There's also the possibility that she's uncomfortable in the dress if you've already picked it out.

    I would definitely wait until she came and said something versus broaching the subject with her.

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