Hi everyone!
I apologize in advance for this being a long post but I am in such a rut and don't know what to do. 😭
So I am getting married this November and I am still trying to find a wedding gown. Two years ago I said yes to the dress of my dreams but we left without it because we didn't even have a date or a venue at that point yet. Fast forward after deciding on a date and venue and theme and I just couldn't get that dress out of my head. Every dress I saw or tried on just didn't make me feel like that other dress. When I tried that dress on again I was in so much pain (I had broken and shattered my pelvis in the past and can't handle much weight on my hips....like I can't even wear jeans unless they are high waisted). It absolutely broke my heart and I talked myself out of wearing an aline dress co.pmetely. So I settled for a trumpet gown that I thought was beautiful but I needed to put drape sleeves on it. Once I got it in and tried it on I was in shock and filled with utter disappointment. The next time I tried it on I was in tears. It's a beautiful dress but it doesn't make me feel beautiful and it doesn't feel like "my dress". I have been going back and forth trying on more dresses and looking at different options. At this point I am trying to custom make a dress with Anomalies. The problem is that at this point with all of the opinions I have received (but not asked for) and the back and forth of the Silhouette of the dress and the top, I swear I am going to lose my mind. I honestly don't know what I want and am terrified that my anxiety is going to make me regret whatever decision (if I can make one) I make. I was so decisive in the beginning but just so many issues created this indecisive monster. Does anyone have any tips, help, advice to give? I know it's probably not that important and I was just going to deal with the dress I have now but my Mom is being so generous that she said she would kill me if I didn't love my dress so she is offering to get me another.
Thank you in advance 🙏
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