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Sarah
Expert August 2020

Photographer issue?

Sarah, on November 9, 2019 at 2:50 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 5
FH and I booked a photographer through a recommendation of a friend who used him for her wedding. He was reasonable, we liked his work, excellent reviews of being fast, professional etc. Our package included a free engagement session so we scheduled our engagement pics for Oct. 19. He told us we’d have them in 7-10 days but he is in the midst of moving so to give him some grace. Last weekend (14 days out) I send a text just asking for an update. He told me was working on finishing to project and he’d hope to have them to us by Wednesday (11/6).

11/6 came and went And we’ve heard nothing from him. I’m trying to be patient as he explained to us his commute is currently 90 min during the week, and he travels home and does weddings on weekends. He told us when we had the pictures done he was moving this weekend (like today) so things have been a bit crazy for him lately. I have been watching his social media and he’s been posting much less in the weeks since our session.



When is it appropriate to follow up again and how would you politely ask with a bit more urgency? This does not seem like it’s his normal way of doing things so I don’t want to seem insensitive but at the same time, we need to get our save the dates out!

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Latest activity by Samantha, on November 13, 2019 at 2:20 PM
  • Renee
    Super October 2020
    Renee ·
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    I'd try to have some patience with him, it sounds like he's got a lot going on. Sometimes life gets in the way. If you need pictures for your stds, I'd ask if he could send over a few that are finished so you could use one of them
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  • Sarah
    Expert August 2020
    Sarah ·
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    That’s a good idea. I really don’t want to come across as being insensitive or impatient. I like the idea of Just asking for a “sneak peak” if he has any ready.
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  • Givemeallthepups
    Expert February 2020
    Givemeallthepups ·
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    It would probably help for you to put it in perspective for him too. Maybe shoot him an email with “we need to get our save the dates sent to print on xx date. Will we be able to have a couple of photos ready to use by then?”
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  • Heather
    Expert August 2020
    Heather ·
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    I think that is the best way to go about it, since you can see he isn’t ghosting you. It also shows that you aren’t being rude and have empathy for his situation.
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  • S
    August 2020
    Samantha ·
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    Tough situation because you’ll obviously be working with him on your wedding day. I would be kind but assertive and call him again now. Reasonably priced or not, wedding photographers are expensive. I’m guessing you’re paying a good amount of money. He needs to be true to his commitment and get you the photos immediately. A few days to a week, FINE, be flexible. But that’s a little ridiculous.
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