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Dedicated June 2021

Photographer drama

User2574599655703, on January 9, 2020 at 9:16 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 13

I am running into an issue with our photographer and I don't know what to do.

We hired a photographer for $2200. The package comes with 5 hours of photography and 3 hours of videography with the option for a second shooter when not filming. Over the past few months, I've become extremely concerned with her professionalism AND the quality of her work. Initially, her style was more in line with what I like, but the photos she's been posting on Instagram the past few months are different stylistically than what I originally saw from her. I reached out to her several times over the past few months to discuss the shot list and style--and she didn't respond. We finally sent her an email today asking to terminate the contract and return the deposit. Within 30 minutes she called. What infuriated me was that she attempted to answer the questions I raised in emails over the past few months instead of acknowledging her unprofessionalism. She totally glossed over the fact that I had to ask to terminate the contract before she responded to me. She didn't apologize until I told her I wasn't interested in discussing the shot list or the style until she acknowledged the communication issues. She eventually apologized and sent us additional photographs to review to address my concerns about the quality of her photographs. But I didn't walk away from the conversation feeling confident that she would improve her communication and I really just don't feel good about her. I also didn't like the examples she sent to me and I don't know if that can be fixed.

I found a photographer who costs $2,500 for 6 hours of photography. No videography and no second shooter. His photographs are BEAUTIFUL. We talked for 45 minutes. He actually shot my venue the day before our call and we both said we felt like the universe was aligning. I feel like we clicked and he was appalled by my photographer's behavior. But with no guarantee we will get the deposit back, he is out of our price range.

I have heard so many couples say that the one thing they regret about their wedding is their photographs. Either they went cheap, or the photographer wasn't good, or didn't show up. But most people agree that photographs are important. I'm not sure if we should proceed with the current photographer despite all of her problems or if I should I bite the bullet and come up with an extra $1,400. FH supports me in terminating the contract. I am okay with giving up videography to get stunning photographs, but I'm nervous about coming up with an extra $1,400 four months out. To be fair, there are two photos in the gallery she sent me that I think represent the style I like. But I am unsure about her consistency now.

Not sure what to do and would appreciate an outside perspective.

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Latest activity by Eerik, on January 27, 2020 at 6:49 AM
  • V
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    Veronica ·
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    If you are having doubts then I would go with someone else. I had doubts about my florist, but I ignored. By the time I wanted to fire her, the wedding was only 2 months away and I thought it would be nearly impossible to find a new florist in that short of time. I highly regret not firing her and finding someone else. I would hate for you to regret having a photographer that you are unsure about. Maybe you could talk to him to see if you could work out a payment plan.
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  • Kristen
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    Well I would go with your gut and get a photographer that you like. It is not always about how much they charge as some can be affordable and still have great quality and some can charge a lot and be unprofessional and have bad quality. Can you terminate the contract and receive your money back? I feel like she stepped it up once you threatened to cancel. Even if she was not content with your questions good customer service will still respond, not ignore. You can talk to her and state your terms from here on out but no guarantee you will love your pics the day of. I would probably go with the other photographer.

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  • User2574599655703
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    The contract says the deposit is non-refundable. I don't think she will return it out of the goodness of her heart either.

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  • Kristen
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    Well she has to make some money. $1000+ is a lot to save for another photographer but may be worth it. I would talk to the fiance or have another discussion nicely with the photographer and let her know that you want communication and also you want the photos to be of this style. Not sure you can get some kind of guarantee that her pics will follow what you want??

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  • Gen
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    Gen ·
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    I would go with your gut. Better to be out $1400 than to regret your wedding photos for the rest of your life. You can always make that money back, but you’ll never be able to redo your wedding photos!


    Is it possible I wonder, to apply the deposit to JUST videography services? Like since you’ve already paid some, is it possible to get a package with her that’s just the 3 hours of videography? That way your money won’t go to waste, you’ll still get video, and then you can get the photographer you want.

    Maybe a bit of a long shot but it’s worth a try?
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  • User2574599655703
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    NOW THAT IS A GREAT IDEA!!!!!!! This is why I knew I needed an outside perspective.
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  • Gen
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    Haha oh good I’m so glad I could help!! Sometimes it’s hard to think of these things when you’re emotional and stressed out from it lol.



    Let me know how it goes! I hope it works out for you Smiley smile
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  • Cyndy
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    Cyndy ·
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    I would go with how you are feeling. I’ve wish I had done that. I was not happy with my photos at all. 😢
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    That's what I'm afraid of happening.

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  • Taylor
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    That is SUPER frustrating and I am so so sorrySmiley sad I assume the contract says you don't get your deposit back? Maybe see who the second shooter is and look at their portfolio. I know all of the photographers I follow usually use a local photographer when they need a second shooter. If their work is better, pay for them to be there a couple extra hours. It should be MUCH cheaper than $1400.

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  • Lena
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    Lena ·
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    Just remember, you can't redo those pictures. I would rather splurge on a photographer I absolutely love than regret the pics forever Smiley smile

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  • User2574599655703
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    You are so, so right. I think we will just go for the other guy.
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    UPDATE: She gave us the deposit back and we are going with the other photographer! We are very pleased to have parted on amicable terms and are looking forward to working with this new photographer.

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