Hi guys, I just want to vent for a moment...
on Sunday we had my bridal shower, the most beautiful party!!! I had the best time! so my maid of honor is my little sister, she is 17 years old so she is that typical teenage stage right now. My fiancée came at the end of the party, at this time his sister asked for us to take a pic with her so obv we did... that is all literally the only one we took. My sister hysterically started to cry saying at the table while sitting, why are we taking a pic with his sister and not her, so my Aunt told my sister if you would like a pic with them just go over there and ask... in which she replied I should not have to ask, they should ask me! and stormed off... now I had no idea this was going on... and also I did not think to take pics with many combo's his sister asked for a pic with him and I so I just took one..... so when I asked my sister why she was crying she said no reason, so my mom and my aunt both told me what happened. My mom was 1. mad at my Aunt for telling my sister to ask for the pic and 2. was mad that I left my sister out, which was not intentional. She said that I made my sister feel like nothing and that she is not apart of the wedding nothing.... so now girls I swear I did not do this on purpose, but when she started the pity of making her feel like not apart of the wedding I had to let it out. At every appointment, dress, venue, anything that she has been there for she does nothing but stays on her cellphone, when trying my dress my mom told her she would have to help me possibly pee and my sister flipped out and refused.. which is fine whatever... but at my first fitting I asked my sister to take pics of me in the dress so I would have, she took one and put my phone down and went on her phone... my other friend started taking every detail. So, I said to my mom, she feels left out and nothing how about how I feel the whole time when she has no interest, never responds in the bridesmaid group chat and is always miserable.... how am I a monster for taking a photo with soon to be sister in law? so after this mom said she will not get involved but I said how come you can tell me her feelings but can not hear or tell her my feelings.... I feel like its a photo if you wanted one why not just ask, his sister asked for one its not like we took with every single person but my sister or even many people... we literally just took with the ONE person who asked. I don't know ladies, just feeling annoyed now lol
