I have two 3 year old girls - they're both very well behaved, have the potential to be shy but overall, very nice and pleasant. (They aren't rowdy). I keep going back and fourth if they should do petals or walk down with a bouquet. With bouquets, they can just walk down be cute. With petals, they may get nervous or too focused...but it would still be cute. I'm just not sure.
I was thinking of buying them a small book, explaining the role of the flower girl. When I decide (petal or bouquet), do I need to buy them flowers to practice? Or would that be too much of an expense? (My MOH thinks that it's another thing to add on my full plate and that the parents can worry about it).
Thanks!
PS: We're also planning to do a surprise "flower girls" with both of our grandmas - this is a huge thing for them. For my fiancé, this is her first grandson that's getting married and she's known me for years before we started dating. This will also be the first wedding my grandma will attend (for her grandkids) since my cousins all eloped. We're making them "flower queens"...something like that. We may just have them walk with pomanders or 2 stem flowers 
