Whew, it's been a minute since I made a post and honestly never thought I'd post again! But here we are, almost 3 months post-wedding and we are still getting comments here and there from random people who were not invited.
Last night we were at the county fair for a concert and we ran into some of my in-laws friends. They made the comment "Hey still waiting on my invite, oh wait you're already married! It's ok I heard it was tight. Yall needed to get a bigger space!"
Ugh...I was actually surprised he said this to our face totally serious. My husband tried to play it off and say "Oh yeah we had a smaller venue and had to squeeze people in."
We had 160 people in our venue and we literally could not have put another table for safety reasons. Not that we need to explain ourselves. But I don't think thats small by any means either.
Then the family friend proceeded to say "Yeah I talked to your step dad last week and he said he had friends he wanted there that weren't invited." Which means they had an actual conversation about it, likely not joking around. Are people really like this? Does it really matter now? It doesn't bother me if they feel left out (meanwhile this was a family friend I literally met yesterday, and a handful of people who were invited I had never met prior to the wedding but I let it slide...)
Sorry we cannot invite the entire county! Husband and his family knows everyone, small town problems, but I'm shocked people actually have the guts to express this stuff to us as if to make us feel guilty for not having them.
Then he ends the conversation with, "It looked like a tight space, I saw pictures." Ok bye. Our guests were comfortable and we did hit the max limit we could have. People these days!
Rant over. Just letting yall know that just because the wedding ends does not always mean the opinions do, lol!
