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Just Said Yes June 2020

Paying for own nails as part of bachelorette

4054369573, on March 6, 2020 at 1:50 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 6
Question, day of bachelorette (because I really don’t want to go bar hopping) I suggested brunch and spa day and then hanging at hotel where we can drink if like I have jr bridesmaids my daughters who I want to include as well. One of my matrons booked the nail salon I said well I can pay for my girls and she was like every one is going to pay for their own. Is that how it’s done?

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Latest activity by Kristen, on March 6, 2020 at 2:50 PM
  • Kristen
    Master November 2020
    Kristen ·
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    It depends but if you are suggesting what should be done for The Bachelorette there might be the expectation that you do your own Nails. It's up to people if they choose choose to cover your expenses. Unfortunately it would be nice if they cover your expenses but it wouldn't be proper for you to tell them to pay for you.
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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    Normally I’ve seen people pay for the bride as well. I would pay for the bride but I guess maybe not everyone thinks that way
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  • Theadra
    Devoted June 2021
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    Hmm if it’s a “requirement” it might be expected. My BM said they def want to get their nails done (toes as what I know of ) and of course I want to as well. But i told them we can get them at separate times . I didn’t expect everyone all at once because 1) everyone is coming at different times 2) don’t want to take up the whole nail salon lol. Maybe if you suggest not going al together it would ease that stressor or ask convo. If you should pay or not . Hope that helps
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    Just Said Yes June 2020
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    It’s not required, I have one of my matrons who is surgical tech and can’t get fake nails, one of bridesmaids is doing press on, I don’t care as long as they look nice. They’re even doing their own hair which I don’t mind
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    Just Said Yes June 2020
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    Yeah that’s understandable. They asked me my ideas on my bachelorette and so I give my opinion on what would be fun I would also like to do sip and paint. I don’t expect I guess I’m a little overwhelmed because I bought their dresses because some of the girls felt the dresses were to high.
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  • Kristen
    Master November 2020
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    Sadly each bridesmaid is different and I know I would get with the other ladies and pay but I have seen here that some bridesmaid do not even think to plan a bachelorette. I think each situation is different.

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