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Betty
VIP September 2014

Paying for groomsmens tux

Betty, on June 17, 2014 at 5:45 PM

Posted in Wedding Attire 51

One of the groomsmen just asked 'you're footing the bill for this right.' Umm no... I said 'you'll have to ask FH' Are you paying for your groomsmens tux rental?? (Wedding is in town no travel expenses yadda yadda)

One of the groomsmen just asked 'you're footing the bill for this right.' Umm no...

I said 'you'll have to ask FH'

Are you paying for your groomsmens tux rental?? (Wedding is in town no travel expenses yadda yadda)

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  • Brandy
    Super September 2014
    Brandy ·
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    Were paying for our GMs rentals and we also paid for the BMs dresses. This is a good reason why you should have the cost discussion before committing to anything. Hopefully the outfit you picked out is in their affordable price range.

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  • Kimberly
    VIP October 2014
    Kimberly ·
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    We are not planning on paying. However, one if the GMs just lost his job so I'm preparing myself and the budget to help him if we need to.

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  • Future_Mrs.Mandeville
    Super September 2014
    Future_Mrs.Mandeville ·
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    Double post..

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  • Future_Mrs.Mandeville
    Super September 2014
    Future_Mrs.Mandeville ·
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    No, we are not paying for any of the bridal parties attire. We are however giving very nice thank you gifts to make up for their cost.

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  • Samantha
    VIP August 2014
    Samantha ·
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    Not at all

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  • Future Mrs. Burt
    Super July 2015
    Future Mrs. Burt ·
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    Hell no.

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  • Gamecock Mrs.
    Master October 2014
    Gamecock Mrs. ·
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    FH wants to. We will see. Fine eith way.

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  • KM
    Master March 2015
    KM ·
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    If he needed us to, we would.

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  • Susan
    Master March 2015
    Susan ·
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    We have talked about helping GM's and BM's pay for their attire if needed. I am willing to help my girls, Its more important to me to have them up there, than whether or not they can afford it. I may end up helping with 3 of 4 dress and he may have to pay for almost all of his GM tuxes too. His son is Best man, so that is a given, but the others are fairly young guys without a lot of money.

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  • F
    Super September 2014
    FutureMrsE ·
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    NO!

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  • KarenM
    Master November 2014
    KarenM ·
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    I f*cked up. It was my money and I was feeling generous, so I bought my MOH her dress. I also made the mistake of telling FH. All of the sudden, I was paying for our BM's suit too, which, BTW is way more expensive that the dress. Pissed, but there's not much I can do about it.

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  • Elle
    Master March 2015
    Elle ·
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    No!

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  • LB
    Master May 2014
    LB ·
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    We did but we know we are the exception rather than the rule. We thought it would be a nice gesture. Bought attire for entire wedding party.

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  • NewMrsWesely
    Master September 2016
    NewMrsWesely ·
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    Right now my wedding party almost everyone it's well off, a few who are not and we will prob help them out if they need it. Even with that we are going to try and keep the cost down for them. This is one area that always made me a little ticked when doing dresses and tuxes. The bride and groom would never take into consideration what their party could afford or talked to them how much it was. I saw many of a people pissed of when they find out the price.

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  • windinyourhair
    Super May 2014
    windinyourhair ·
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    We paid for one groomsmen tux rental but only because it's my brother and he is going through a financial hardship. otherwise everyone paid for themselves.

    the way we helped the bridesmaids with their budget was 1 have affordable attire, and 2 they stayed at our house for a few nights before the wedding so they only had to pay for 2 nights at the hotel.

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  • Matthew McDermott
    Matthew McDermott ·
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    From the vendor perspective, we most often see the members of the wedding party pay for their own attire. That said, I've seen the couple pay in some cases if it's a small wedding party (2 - 3 guys) or in special cases for a member of the wedding party who was having some particular financial issues. In recent memory, we had one large wedding party in which the groom paid for all the groomsmen (8-10 guys) - his arrangement was that he'd pay for the rental (it was for suits) and if they wanted to purchase, they could buy-up on their own if they chose to - definitely more of an exception than the rule here.

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  • Knox2015
    Devoted June 2015
    Knox2015 ·
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    HA!

    NEVERRRRRRRRRRR

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  • T
    Dedicated June 2014
    Tina bower Jones ·
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    No.

    Although usually the grooms gift to groomsmen is roughly same cost of tux.

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  • Jemma
    VIP July 2014
    Jemma ·
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    We are paying for the suits and dresses for our bridal party, but then two of my bridesmaids had me in their wedding and paid for mine (and the third bridesmaid is only 7 and her mum had me in her wedding and paid for my dress) so it would be a bit rude not to!

    I think in the UK it's a bit more common for the bride and groom to pay for the outfits though.

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  • Tanya
    Super April 2015
    Tanya ·
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    We are paying for the flower girl & ring bearer's tux but that is it. I feel like when you say yes to being in the bridal party you know that you will forking out some cash for the wedding. I never expected anyone to pay for my bridesmaid dresses in the weddings I have been in.

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