So I’m not religious but my fiancé is lightly religious. We had an officiant that couldn’t do our wedding and had to cancel so he wanted to ask his families pastor. I was hesitant because I don’t want a ceremony turned into a sermon. He understands that.
The vows we sent we both read and liked and didn’t think needed changing.
The pastor said that he thinks it’s weird that they don’t mention God. That he respects my feelings but that FH and his family are religious so wants to add a prayer or scripture to our vows.I’m not sure what to say