Anyone else feeling pushed to invite people to your wedding by the very people who offered to pay for your wedding I.E. parents???? Like I already feel like this is a set up because I feel like eventually down the line if and when we argue in the bear future they will bring up "I paid for your wedding"...yes, that type. I invited my stepbrother and his girlfriend...they want me to include HER kids....but I already have his one son AND his ex girl that the whole family is still good with (obviously they will be at different tables, they are cordial) but I feel pressured to invite the new girlfriends kids and I don't think that's right but I feel like they are A.) Either going to invite them anyway because they are paying for the wedding or B). Make me feel guilty for it.
The total we agreed on at the venue was a minimum 35 people....we meet that to a T, not to mention there are 4 other kids already included in that. I don't want her other 2 kids added to it not to be mean but because I genuinely don't know her kids like that and I just don't want too many kids? Isn't that fair to ask, like what. Idk, This whole process has been lonely and miserable to be honest and if money wasn't already invested I would have eloped like we genuinely wanted at first...
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