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Future Mrs.Scott
Devoted June 2018

Parents not in processional?

Future Mrs.Scott, on January 28, 2018 at 1:00 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 14
Can the parents just sit as guests or do they have to walk in the processional. We’re not having a wedding party.

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Latest activity by JerseyGirl, on January 28, 2018 at 6:50 PM
  • Vanessasaurus
    VIP June 2019
    Vanessasaurus ·
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    This is really going to depend on your relationship with them. I feel a little weird about my dad walking me down the aisle so I'm having them both walk me down. You can opt out of this tradition altogether though.
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  • JustKidding
    VIP April 2018
    JustKidding ·
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    I have no parents, and to not highlight that more, his will come in and sit with every other guest.
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  • Rachel Langerhans
    Expert October 2015
    Rachel Langerhans ·
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    They can just walk in and sit if you/they want. We didn't have a wedding party (so glad we didn't!). My dad did walk me down the aisle, but my mom sat in her seat in the front ahead of the ceremony starting.

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  • muriel
    Champion June 2018
    muriel ·
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    Parents are often the last ones seated before the formal processional begins.

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  • Dillydilly
    Dedicated April 2018
    Dillydilly ·
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    I was at a wedding where there was divorced parents and bad blood on the side of the bride, she came down alone, all parents just sat with the guests. No biggie. The Mom of Groom was mellow about it.

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  • Future Mrs.Scott
    Devoted June 2018
    Future Mrs.Scott ·
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    Yes, I'm thinking they will just sit with guests and I will walk myself.

    Thanks for the help!

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  • jnsangel4life
    Dedicated May 2018
    jnsangel4life ·
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    Both of my parents are passed and so is his mother. My oldest son and my grandson are going to walk me and give me away. That was the easy part. It's the father/daughter mother/son dance that we are trying to figure out. We are thinking he can dance with our daughter and me with my son or his father. We may cut it out all together. Haven't quite decided.
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  • WED18
    July 1993
    WED18 ·
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    I would still have them be the last to take their seats, but you can have them do that before the processional music begins.

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  • KitandKaboodle
    Master November 2016
    KitandKaboodle ·
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    For our ceremony, we left this up to our mothers. Both chose to walk down the aisle. My mother later said she's glad she did.

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  • Amanda
    Dedicated June 2017
    Amanda ·
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    We didn't have a bridal party but our parents walked down the aisle before I did (I walked alone).

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  • K
    Dedicated September 2018
    Kelsey ·
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    It's totally up to you. I'm walking down by myself because I have issues with the idea of my parents "giving me away" and I'm just not that close to them. Do what you're comfortable and happy with and no one else is probably going to think twice about it.
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  • O
    Master October 2017
    O ·
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    My mom didn't want to be escorted to her seat, told me it was something she disliked at my brothers wedding. My mom and MIL entered the room at the same time as other guests.
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  • Melissa
    Master March 2018
    Melissa ·
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    My dad is walking my down the aisle, but my mom isn’t in my life. I really don’t want to highlight that by having just one set of parents walk down before processional so they’ll just sit.
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  • JerseyGirl
    Master May 2017
    JerseyGirl ·
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    We didn’t have a wedding party either and I’m so glad we didn’t! Our just sat before we started. My dad walked me down the aisle.
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