I was talking to my dad this afternoon, and he drops the bombshell that he and my stepmom might be splitting up and I've been cycling between WTH and panic mode ever since. I don't have all the information, and I'm not sure how much this derails our plans. My stepmom is basically my mom (long story short, haven't seen or spoken to my birth mother since 2012 and she, nor her family is invited to our wedding) and if she and my dad split, then do I basically not have a mom anymore? Like how would I include her without making it awkward? Also, she and my dad were going to help us cover the costs of the venue and the catering, Does that go out the window too?
idk man, I'm just confused and scared.