Parent's at bachelorette party

I asked my aunt and two of my cousins (both 16) to be members of the bridal party. To make sure that no one feels excluded, we are making the spa day activities and lunch the actual bachelorette party. My aunt will take my cousins home so that I can go out for karaoke with the other bridesmaids, but we are not officially calling this part of the bachelorette event.

I’m not planning on having either my mom or fmil at mine, but my FH has his step father as a groomsman, so he will most likely be included in whatever they do.

My mom was at my bachelorette party. She's more fun than I am! Personally I'd give them the option to come out for drinks afterwards, but if you think they'd be uncomfortable I would just tell your MOH to invite them to the spa day from x time to y time.

My mom and FMIL will come to dinner but they won't be attending the club portion, I never really had to say anything about that, they did not want to attend a club.

My mom and Future MIL won’t be at my bachelorette party and don’t want to be there anyway. I know everyone is different but I feel like that strictly for friends.

I like the previous posters idea of just having this Bobby the bachelorette party and half the time that you’re down there listed as a time and a party and just have an agreement with you and your bride to meet with y’all are going out after the party

I like the previous posters idea of just having the spa day be the bachelorette party and have the time that you’re done there listed as a time the party ends and then just have an agreement with you and your bridesmaids that y’all are going out after the party

Sorry AutoCorrect really screwed me on that one

Just tell them to come for the spa day? You don't have to mention going out out or if you do just say the girls are going bar hopping later in the evening. I would also plan the spa day so it starts before lunctime that way there's a good break in between spa and going out. I don't see this as a problem nor would I think the moms would think it's rude. Chances are they don't wanna go out and get drunk.

My mother & FMIL are not coming to my bachelorette. I'd just ask them to come to the spa part, I'm sure they don't expect to be included in the later part.