Soo first off I am Mexican and so is my fiance, he is very traditional and I am very Non-traditional I love the new latest and greatest lol especially since pinterest has been around. Anyways he wanted padrinos and I didnt but gave in anyway thing is we are on a budget and now even more since the birth of our daughter who is now 1 anyways I ordered invitations and got the reception card and response card but did not get a program to list padrinos because of the extra 100 and sum it would be is that rude of me to not list them on the invitations can I just list them on the programs that will be at the wedding or is that still rude? Help!