Good morning December Brides;
I really need help this morning. Yesterday was a real dossie of a day. My wedding is rather small never intended for it to be larger than 50 at the very most 70 people. Yesterday I receive a text from my venue saying I have an obligation to spend at least $8,500 just on food, she says she gave me a break because it's normally $15,000. Well that was a surprise and not the last one I was to get from them. The next email said I had an obligation to fill another 4 room because I had promised them 8 rooms. While 1 visiting relative booked for 7 nights, and two others for 2 nights and 2 others for 1 night, but they now want it to be 8 booked people. Then I get home and my FH tells me his brother who was supposed to be a groomsman and has known this since last year, now says he isn't able to afford the tuxedo rental and is going to ask someone else to fill his spot. (WAIT...I Don't want that person in my wedding). Top it off with asking people who said they wanted rooms if they had booked and finding out that they had booked somewhere else. Whew....please tell me this is normal and I'll get though it and all the extra financial obligations will work themselves out because right now I feel like I am at my wits end.