I'll be short and I need advice. I kind of know what the "right answer is" BUT...
I had two best friends in Middle school through High School. I was in my one best friend's wedding about 6 years ago as a bridesmaid and it was great! Since then, we have lost touch. We haven't talked on the phone in years and she lives far away so that's hard too. We text maybe once a month and now that my wedding is coming up, we text a tad bit more. Same goes with the other one. My other best friend and I had a major falling out about 4 years ago and have seen each other ONCE since then... Why do I feel so bad that I am not having them as bridesmaids? I know it's my day and all of that but they have to understand right? People grow apart, get older with jobs, get busier.
Also, I am including them in the bachelorette, shower and wedding because I would love for them to be there. Just not actually in the wedding. I don't know why I feel so guilty...
Also, do I owe them an explanation on why they are not "in" the wedding?
Sorry, major overthinker on this end!