I definitely need advice when it comes to my future mother in law. My fiance and I are currently living with my future in laws to save up for our house. When we first got engaged and she found out that we wanted to get married in November 2020, she pitched a fit. She wanted us to get married in October. My Fiance and I both want a late fall/early winter wedding. We chose wedding colors as well to which she did not like and has repeatedly tried to get us to mix in a color that SHE wants (even though we have told her no, we do not want that color SEVERAL TIMES). She has also had something to say about every decision we've made as far as how we want our tables, the flowers we picked and even the food that will be served at the reception.
We chose a LATER date, thinking it was going to work better for her AND my fiance and I came to like a different color scheme and SHE STILL ISNT HAPPY.
Each time we tell her that we do not want something or do not like something that she suggests, she threatens not to help us with the wedding and says that we are yelling or snapping at her.
I guess I just need advice as to what to say or do to make her understand that this day is for her Son and I and not have her feel as if we're getting mad with her.
