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Amanda, on July 19, 2019 at 1:05 PM Posted in Planning 1 15
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Is anyone else nervous about everything coming together the day of they wedding? Individually I love all the items I've picked for the wedding. I'm just starting to get nervous that it won't be as cohesive as I think it will be the actual day of.... I understand there's not to much I can do now but I'm just nervous

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  • Gen
    Master June 2019
    Gen ·
    Looking back on your day stuff like that won’t matter! Try not to stress yourself about it the best “look” for your wedding is you and your husband being happy and in love surrounded by your friends and family! It’s easy to get caught up in stuff like this but just take a deep breath and remind yourself you chose these items for a reason and it will be a beautiful day no matter what.
  • Melle
    Rockstar June 2019
    Melle ·
    I agree with PP!
    And also things may come together better than ya think
  • Yam
    VIP September 2019
    Yam ·
    Heck yes! I can’t go inside my reception venue until the day of so I’m really nervous to see how things will look together. Everything is all crammed in our guest bedroom in boxes and bags. It’s tough to picture it right now.

    I’m sure both of us will have awesome weddings! It’s the same kind of nervousness of buying a dress with sloppy hair in a bun and no makeup, ect. You wonder how on earth THIS is going to transform into a beautiful bride! It’s the same for our decor. It just comes together.
  • A
    Devoted August 2019
    Amanda ·
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    Thanks. 42 days out and I swear my brain wakes up every morning and goes "hmmm what new thing can we worry about today?!" 🤪
  • A
    Devoted August 2019
    Amanda ·
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    Haha our stuff is also in boxes and bags in the guest room! When I look at myself in my dress I'm always like well it looks good from the neck down haha. I'm sure it will all come together and like other people said I probably won't even care that day
  • Gen
    Master June 2019
    Gen ·
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    That’s totally normal haha. Just try to take deep breaths and think “is this really going to affect my or my guests’ experience” because 99% of the things you worry about probably won’t :p our venue was responsible for our centerpieces and I literally didn’t even notice them our entire reception. It wasn’t until the morning after that I realized I hadn’t even noticed what they looked like. I had to check photos. And honestly, they were pretty bad lol. They had just put like 3 votive candles in the center of each table? It was so stupid and not at all what they had told me. But the point is, I didn’t even NOTICE, that’s how little all that stuff matters!
  • A
    Devoted August 2019
    Amanda ·
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    Glad to hear this. Not that you hated your centerpieces lol
  • Tris
    Expert August 2019
    Tris ·
    Yes! I have put so much energy into my wedding vibe/theme. I hope it comes out boho, romantic and wooded fairytale ish. I went over budget on decor so I'm praying it comes together. Im going for an intimate cozy vibe. I want them to feel the love. 😂😂😂
  • Michaela
    Super May 2020
    Michaela ·
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    This seriously made me LOL. I'm 315 days out, so I'm insanely jealous of how close you are right now!!

  • A
    Devoted August 2019
    Amanda ·
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    We've been engaged a year and half so I feel ya pain! It'll be here faster than you think
  • Sherry
    VIP September 2019
    Sherry ·

    I spent an entire weekend doing mockups of all the table setups and decorations just so I could see everything together. It helped! Maybe try that, take some pictures. It is much easier to change things around now then hate it later and have no time to change it, hate the pictures of said item etc.


  • A
    Devoted August 2019
    Amanda ·
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    Good idea! Thanks
  • LaLa
    Devoted October 2019
    LaLa ·

    Yes, I'm not very good at matching colors. I'm not sure if what I picked out is going to look awful once its set up lol.

  • A
    Devoted August 2019
    Amanda ·
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    Glad I'm not the only one
  • Courtney
    Rockstar December 2019
    Courtney ·

    I'm kinda worried about how the guy's suits will look against everything else since they're all black. But I know they're all going to take their jackets off at dinner so I guess I shouldn't worry too much.

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