Looking for some advice,
My fiancé’s pastor is coming from out of state to Colorado to officiate our wedding. We are paying his lodging, etc. We sent him and his wife an invitation, and wrote on the invitations that it was an adults only reception.
He just sent my fiancé a text to RSVP and said “My wife and I will be there and one child, but don’t worry they barely eat anything!”
After coming down from the shock of his audacity, looking for advice on wording to respond to him.
We have had several guest ask if kids are welcome and they have arranged a sitter when we said no. My fiancé’s brother (best man) and sister in law refused to come to the wedding if they couldn’t bring their baby….so we already compromised once. I feel so strongly about not having kids at our wedding, as I have been to several weddings where children have ruined important moments, and feel a wedding is no place for kids.
But this is awkward because he the pastor, and is flying out to do this for us.
Any advice?
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