Our First Look and fmil wants to ruin it (essentially)

So, I've written a few posts about my FMIL and how controlling she is concerning my and FH's wedding. My FH and I really want to do a First Look. When we were going over our wedding day timeline with my FMIL, we told her about needing to make sure the groomsmen arrive at the church with enough time for us to do a First Look before the ceremony. After expressing her displeasure about a First Look not being "traditional" (FMIL, we're not doing a bouquet or garter toss either and I'm keeping my maiden name, so you knows there's a lot of things we're not being traditional about so this shouldn't come as a surprise 😂), she also expressed being upset when I said that the First Look will only consist of the bride, groom and our photographers. She basically told us that we're robbing the parents of that emotional moment when the groom sees his bride for the first time. After I explicitly told her how we were going to do it, she jokingly stated that she'll just have to talk to our photographers about that. Umm no, FMIL. First, you will not dictate to my vendors your desires for my wedding day, especially when my FH and I are paying for the photographers. Second, this wedding isn't about you!! Ugh. This was after she said she was going to request a cousin to videotape and take pictures of our ceremony and reception for her. And she acted all huffy and puffy then when I told her that we hired professional videographers and photographers for that!

Should my FH and I alert my photographers about my FMIL and her potential request? Our photographers are so awesome and we'll definitely follow our wishes! We already decided to do damage control concerning the cousin and my FH's cousin is completely reasonable and will be able to tell her no.