I am so torn. Our wedding is about two months away and when this journey started over a year ago I couldn't be more excited to plan this magical day. Now.. I couldn't be more detached than I am now. It doesn't feel like my wedding anymore. My family has had zero involvement in the entire process. I had to remind my mom about seven different times when we went to pick a dress and my dad still asks me when we're getting married. On the other hand, His family has been too overbearing and has ruined it all together. His grandma sends me harassing texts almost weekly at this point to "do this" and to "call them" and about a million other things. She has taken complete control of everything to the point where I'm not "allowed" to even know what the decorations look like. The decorations! That's most of the wedding?! I just can't deal with it anymore. If it wasn't for the fact that I'm certain my fiance is my soulmate and there is no one I want to spend my life with other than him, I would've walked away months ago.
So, what should I do? There is NO talking to his grandma and I don't think I would be able to get my family to give two %*#( unless I were to get pregnant at this point. My thought was to elope but the fiance says that's a bad idea. Nevertheless - I've been researching elopement packages and work all afternoon...
