Opinions please ladies!

I asked my FH about this before I bought my veil. I don't like blushers, but I wanted to make sure he wasn't expecting one. I probably wouldn't wear it if he didn't like it but that's just me.

He's going to think you're beautiful regardless. I feel like him seeing it on someone else or in general vs him seeing it on you would be so different.

If you really want it you can still do it. I don’t think he will be disappointed. I asked my FH what he envisioned me wearing. It sounded beautiful but there was no way I was wearing sleeves for a beach wedding. I get super hot super easy and so it just wasn’t gonna happen, but he also said “that’s just what I see. How ever you look will be beautiful. All I really care about is seeing you.”

If that's what you envision, go for it! He shouldn't be disappointed because seeing you in it & seeing a random girl in it are completely different! FH was watching SYTTD with me one day and said he didn't really like mermaid style dresses (it seemed weird to him to have a tight dress then go out so much at the bottom).... well, that's exactly what I'm wearing! haha. I know that he'll love it on me, though!

I would stick with your blusher! If that's what you've envisioned, he will love you in whatever you choose!

LOL I feel better now!! When we watch those shows, FH always said "THAT!" when someone comes out in a "booty dress" so that's exactly what he's getting. I thought I would hate the trumpet style bc I am very self conscious. I originally planned to wear an A line with sleeves and was so worried when he said he liked the fitted style and NO sleeves. Then I tried on the trumpet gowns and felt the shape looked best on me anyway so he's definitely getting his dress preference! He can live with the veil! Thanks!

I'm sure once he sees you walking down the isle he won't even care! He'll be top in aw of how beautiful you look.

Yeah, I'm definitely willing to bet he'll love the look on you. My hubby told me a couple of months before the wedding that he didn't like dresses with a nude underlay. My dress has a champagne underlay, so, pretty close based on the way guys see color, lol. Anyway, that bothered me for a while, but there's no way I was going to change my dress, and he LOVED my dress. I even mentioned his comment on the honeymoon and he completely forgot he had even said it. So if your FH is anything like my guy, he'll love your look from head to toe, even if only because it's on you.

I just had the opposite happen with my FH! I was working on my veil, having him take pictures from the back to make sure I had it draped far enough, and he says "so how is that going over your face?" I about died! He had a completely different idea when I told him I wanted a draped veil. He was expecting to lift the veil right before we kissed. I'm still shocked at how traditional he was thinking considering how untraditional nearly everything else will be.