I was inspired by the "what items you could do without" post comments and realized that I do not have to be locked into matching RSVP cards of my invites. I am splurging on minted gold foil invites, though not the double thick paper, because it's the best price compromise instead of hiring a calligrapher for the addresses, which my fmil has pressured for.
I have calculated that I could save $250 getting somewhat similarly designed postcard RSVPs from zazzle. Are postcard RSVPs weird because the guest's information is easily readable? I have never received a postcard one myself. Would this offend anyone? I would skip the paper cards altogether but a majority of our guests are older family members who won't use the website RSVP.