So I've been reading a lot lately on open bars at weddings. My FH and I have been together for 8 years and we're finally tying the knot in October. Since we're paying for 90% of the wedding, open bar all night wasn't exactly an option for us financially. Do you think its acceptable to just do Open bar for the social hour only? I don't want to be rude but we just can't afford the open bar all night. And if so do I put it on the wedding website? And for the older people that are invited that don't use a computer, should I put something on the reception card saying cash bar after Social hour? Thanks in advance!!