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Elaine
Devoted October 2018

Open bar for Rehearsal dinner?

Elaine, on November 15, 2017 at 3:39 PM Posted in Planning 0 9

FH and I are paying for the rehearsal dinner and I was wondering if open bar is a necessity? I don't want my guests to have to pay for anything but at the same time.... do I want to open the door to some of them getting sloshed the day before my wedding? I understand we are all adults and I cant control people and what they do, but when it's free..they may be more inclined lol I know I have plenty of time but just looking for opinions. Thank you all!!!

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Latest activity by Amanda, on November 15, 2017 at 5:26 PM
  • OGJessieJV
    Master July 1867
    OGJessieJV ·
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    You can have beer and wine only. You should provide something. You are hosting, you don't make people pay when you host.

    I've been in several weddings and there's always been wine and beer with dinner.

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  • stephanie
    Super October 2017
    stephanie ·
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    We provided a keg and had a few bottles of wine. (What was left of the keg was the first beer used for the reception the next day.)

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  • Tanya
    Just Said Yes October 2018
    Tanya ·
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    You wouldn't be a good host if you didn't provide their drinks.

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  • caitlin
    Super May 2017
    caitlin ·
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    We provided beer and wine (actually FIL did, he very kindly hosted our RD). when we went out for drinks after the rehearsal everyone paid for their own.

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  • Elaine
    Devoted October 2018
    Elaine ·
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    Thank you guys! I was thinking the same thing but my mother started putting things in my head about not having an open bar (she also doesn't drink so could be why...)

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  • firstoneat56
    Master August 2017
    firstoneat56 ·
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    If people want to get that drunk, they will whether you pay for it or not. That should not be a reason to not cover the cost of alcohol. I just believe all alcohol should be covered by the host(s).

    If the dinner is not an all-nighter, it's probably not likely anyone will get sloshed.

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    Sloshed at a rehearsal dinner?

    Never seen it.

    Beer and wine is fine. Ideally, the RD is short and sweet, not hours of hosting.

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  • Elaine
    Devoted October 2018
    Elaine ·
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    I'm thinking open bar is the way to go. I know my friends aren't just beer and wine people so I guess its go big or... go home because there isn't an open bar. lol Smiley winking Thank you everyone!

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  • Amanda
    Just Said Yes November 2018
    Amanda ·
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    Interesting. The rehearsal dinners I've been to none of the alcohol was included. I thought that was normal! Good to know the better etiquette.

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