My fiance and I are having a very small (under 50) evening wedding with dinner and hiring a pianist for entertainment. We are going more for a fancy dinner party vibe than your standard fun wedding. We were wanting to just do the thing with heavy hors d'oeuvres, but that was really expensive and the venue we most likely will book requires music to end by 10, so we are wanting to do a plated dinner instead.
We are both older, and neither of us have really found dancing at weddings fun. As far as the people we would be inviting, I think maybe a handful would dance, but most wouldn't miss it (I'm assuming this based on the energy of the people we are inviting). The only dances we would want to have would be the Horah (Jewish dance), and 1 dance with each other. No father of the bride/daughter dance and no mother of the groom/groom dance.
Is it weird to do this with just 2 dances? One would be a group dance which isn't really a dance to be honest lol, and the other would be just a simple, slow slong to dance too. This isn't a must for us so we can skip it altogether if it's weird to just have 2 dances. We were planning an order of:
1. ceremony
2. get straight to the Horah
3. dinner and drinks
4. cake and coffee
5. first/last dance
I already know my wedding will be boring and I'm over that lol, but I don't want it seem weird that we only had 2 dances and that's it which is why I'm willing to skip it altogether.
