So I'm investigating sending out email/online save the dates to save on postage and printing, but all the websites that I've found that are free have a built in RSVP option for every invitation you send. I don't want this because I think it'll confuse people if they RSVP to the online save the date, and then assume that they don't need to later. Are there any websites that don't have this option, or that you can turn the option off? I need to send them out soon because we have a lot of family that lives far away, and a lot of my friends work in the wedding industry so they need to know as far out as they can which weekend my wedding is.