My only sister is 9 years older than me and had me as her Maid of Honor back when I was 15 years old (I was surprised...). Honestly we still aren't super close so I was just going to have her as a bridesmaid in my wedding and have her daughters as a junior bridesmaid and flower girl.
I have already asked my college roommate and best friend to be my Maid of Honor because she is the closest to both my fiance & I and was also going to ask my long time Best Friend (going on 20 years of friendship) to be my Matron of Honor. They both live out of town right now so I've just been asking everyone in person as I visit them.
After thinking about it and talking with my parents, we think my sister might be offended to be "3rd in line" out of 4/5 bridesmaids because I had a place of honor in her wedding and she is kind of delicate about this stuff. For this reason, I have thought about having her as my Matron of Honor instead OR just only having the one Maid of Honor I've already asked. My childhood best friend would definitely understand but I would still feel bad if she doesn't have a special place - I know she would LOVE to give a speech.
What would you guys do? (1) Just keep it as is with one MOH? (2) Have sister as MatronOH instead? (3) Have childhood best friend as MatronOH as planned? Were there certain ways that you gave family members a special role in the wedding without giving them that "Honor" title? I considered having her sing a song during the ceremony...
PS: First Post on WW so forgive me for not knowing all the acronyms yet