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Andrea
Devoted August 2017

Ohhhh noooo!!!! Fiance Saw my dress!!!

Andrea, on June 30, 2017 at 7:30 PM

Posted in Wedding Attire 41

We were looking through our engagement pictures and I accidentally scrolled to far and the back of my dress popped up!!! I feel like I completely ruined our first look He swore he barely saw but I feel terrible.

We were looking through our engagement pictures and I accidentally scrolled to far and the back of my dress popped up!!! I feel like I completely ruined our first look Smiley sad He swore he barely saw but I feel terrible.


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  • Kaitlynd
    Expert September 2017
    Kaitlynd ·
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    I put my dress in our basement bedroom and that's where our circuit breaker is. One day the power went out due to a storm and FH didn't remember that my dress was down there and he walked in, says he saw white and immediately shut the door. I'm praying he really didn't see much of anything.

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  • CallmeSam
    Expert May 2018
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    He didn't see the front. It's ok.

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  • Adalyn
    Devoted September 2017
    Adalyn ·
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    Oh no...my dress is hanging in our closet in always worried FH is gunna unzip the bag and look but it's a the way and back and he says he wants to be surprised...

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  • Amanda
    Master January 2017
    Amanda ·
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    This happened to me too and I was so worried and upset but my husband honestly didn't see it. So I'm sure your FH definitely won't remember if he did see it at all. It was probably just a blur of white to him since it sounds like you swiped away quickly, I wouldn't worry!

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  • Spaghetti
    VIP November 2018
    Spaghetti ·
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    You're fine!! The first look isn't about the dress, it's about you and him! He didn't see you in your hair and makeup, feel the anticipation of marrying his best friend in just a couple hours, or the feeling of the day you've been planning finally arriving! Nothing is ruined Smiley smile

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  • SAK2SAH
    Super October 2017
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    Nothing will compare to the emotions he will have on your wedding day, when you're about to become husband and wife. Your special moment has not been ruined. It will be beautiful!!

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  • Carmen
    Dedicated April 2019
    Carmen ·
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    My FH was there when I picked the dress and he is the one that helped me pick between 2 different ones! We actually picked my dress up on Tuesday and he hasn't see it since it's been home because he was playing video games with my son when I put it on for the family. But he says he doesn't even remember what it looks like, he remembers my smile when I had it on..you'll be fine girl and he will think you are the most beautiful woman ever on the wedding day!

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  • Erin Wood
    Master July 2017
    Erin Wood ·
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    I totally did this!! I don't think he'll remember plus it'll look different once you're all dolled up. Don't worry!

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  • Mrs. Librarian
    VIP November 2016
    Mrs. Librarian ·
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    I did that too, he didn't remember it at all the day of lol

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  • Bride2Be2018
    VIP January 2018
    Bride2Be2018 ·
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    He just saw dat booty haha!! No worries...you can't see your hair, makeup, or anything in regards to the front of the dress. He probably only saw a flash of it and only remembers seeing a random white dress.

    ETA: Wording

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  • Teri
    VIP May 2017
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    You will be fine. It wasn't the front and you weren't all dolled up. More than likely he won't remember what it looks like by then. My dress was stored in our spare bedroom that my DH has his computer set up in. So he could see my dress everyday. He was still excited the day of because I was finally in it.

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  • Brenda
    Super September 2017
    Brenda ·
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    I'm sure he won't remember it, plus it's not the same as in person. Now go put an app on your phone and hide it lol. I just keepsafe.

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  • PennysMom
    Expert September 2018
    PennysMom ·
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    No sweat. He won't remember and he didn't see details that he will see at the wedding. The moment has a lot to do with it also!!!

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  • Natalie
    Master September 2016
    Natalie ·
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    He won't even remember trust me.

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  • S
    Devoted August 2017
    Shelena ·
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    I can only imagine, but the look on your wedding day is not compatible to the back of your dress...... relax

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  • L
    Devoted August 2017
    Laura ·
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    Men are not detailed oriented about bridal wear. My FH saw in on a hanger when I Brought it in the spare room closet.

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  • MarissaFromOregon
    Expert June 2017
    MarissaFromOregon ·
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    You will look SO different day of! He will still have that wow moment!

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  • annakay511
    Master July 2015
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    It will be totally different on your wedding day with your hair and makeup done and more importantly, the emotions!

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  • FutureMrs.Jacobs
    Super October 2018
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    AWWWW... it will be okay. Men are not that observant he won't remember a thing.

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  • Jessica
    Just Said Yes October 2023
    Jessica ·
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    I felt the same way. I couldn’t keep it a secret!!!
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