We're now at the point where we are starting to figure out gratuity for all of our vendors and are stumped on what to do for our officiant. While our go-to is to always just leave a nice monetary tip, it seems very impersonal for her. Additionally, we know that the cost we are paying for her all goes directly to her, so it seems strange to just add more money in an envelope.
Would it be better to just do that, or would a heartfelt thank you card and personal gift be a better option?
